Seven Habits: Habit # 5 – Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood

#644    Seven Habits: Habit # 5 – Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood
Principle:
QUOTES:
[1] Scripture
[2]  The next three habits talk about Interdependence (e.g., working with others):
Habit # 5 – Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood
Use empathetic listening to genuinely understand a person, which compels them to reciprocate the listening and take an open mind to being influenced by you. This creates an atmosphere of caring, and positive problem solving.
The Habit 5 is greatly embraced in the Greek philosophy represented by 3 words:
1) Ethos – your personal credibility. It’s the trust that you inspire, your Emotional Bank Account.
2) Pathos is the empathic side — it’s the alignment with the emotional trust of another person communication.
3) Logos is the logic — the reasoning part of the presentation.
The order is important: ethos, pathos, logos — your character, and your relationships, and then the logic of your presentation.
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NOTES:
QUESTIONS for thinking it through:
How could this clarify my Reality?
How could this benefit if added to my Disciplines?
Who needs to hear this?
SOURCES:
[1] Scripture
[2] The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_7_Habits_of_Highly_Effective_People
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, first published in 1988, is a business and self-help book written by Stephen R. Covey.
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