1.25 What is my Gretchen Rubin Four Tendency (Upholders, Questioners, Obligers, and Rebels)?

#122    What is my Gretchen Rubin Four Tendency (Upholders, Questioners, Obligers, and Rebels)?
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[2] Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about how different people respond to rules–and I use “rules” broadly (see below for examples) to mean any kind of instruction to do or not do something … With that in mind, consider whether any of these types rings a bell:Upholder—accepts rules, whether from outside or inside. An upholder meets deadlines, follows doctor’s order, keeps a New Year’s resolution. I am an Upholder, 100%.

Questioner—questions rules and accepts them only if they make sense. They may choose to follow rules, or not, according to their judgment.

Rebel—flouts rules, from outside or inside. They resist control. Give a rebel a rule, and the rebel will want to do the very opposite thing.

Obliger—accepts outside rules, but doesn’t like to adopt self-imposed rules.

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[2]  Four Personality Types: Which One Are You? by Gretchen Rubin, January 7, 2013, https://gretchenrubin.com/2013/01/four-personality-types-which-one-are-you/

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DISCERNMENT QUESTIONS
What gets my attention?
Do I understand the need or problem?
Do I understand the potential solution?
Do I understand how to apply that strategy?
What questions do I have for the experts? What might be the answers?
Who needs to hear this?
What do I do next?

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