Glover: I don’t want to try and give you the “right way” to handle a woman

I don’t want to try and give you the “right way” to handle a woman creating negative emotional tension (because there isn’t one). But when you are conscious, soothing yourself, and welcoming the opportunity to dance with a woman, you’ll probably just naturally lead in a powerful and loving way.

From this place, you might:

Listen a little
Express your love
Be physical
“Take the blame”
Use humor
Exaggerate
Be playful
Own your mistakes
Wrestle with her
Change the subject
Be fierce
Be tender
Fuck her
Give her space
Set a boundary

As I mentioned before, there is no “right” way to respond to a woman’s negative emotional tension, but there are plenty of wrong ways that will do nothing but make a woman feel even more unloved, unseen, and alone. You’ll make plenty of mistakes, and that’s okay. Just keep learning and keep leading.