I believe there is a better way—the self-centered ScreamFree way

QUOTE: Well, obviously, I believe there is a better way—the self-centered ScreamFree way—and that’s what this book is all about. Specifically, this book is going to show you a way of being married that focuses not on compatibility, but on personal commitment and integrity. It’s going to show you how to be married in a way that doesn’t depend on finding agreement with your spouse, but rather on embracing your conflicts as the growth opportunity you and your marriage need. The rest of this book is going to show you that it’s not what you have in common that makes a deep, lasting connection; it’s what you’ve got inside. What you’ve got inside you—integrity, passion, commitment—that’s what creates and maintains connection.