Becoming BTL requires that you become the biggest influence in your life.
This is why you must become a writer and speak from your heart. This is why trust is a must. None of us is meant to go it alone or even a lone. We are designed, instead, to become all ONE with the help of a few friends.
Scott, Chet. BECOMING BUILT TO LEAD: 365 DAILY DISCIPLINES TO MASTER THE ART OF LIVING (p. 5). Ethos Collective. Kindle Edition.